Do you have regret about your life lived so far?
Do you think that your life could have been lived differently?
Does your mind wonder in the past most of the time and always thinks that you could have done that or this?
My friend, it does not matter what happened in the past, simply because nothing can be done about it. At the max, what you can do is Accept that something like that happened and note if there is any learning in it. That’s it. Period.
Now, the most important question is – What you are doing now so that your future-self is proud of you?
Are you standing up again after badly hit by life and circumstances?
Are you taking charge of your life instead of playing Victim card?
Are you going to put in efforts to become someone you would really like to become?
The decision of choosing road is yours (entirely yours!).
From Alice in Wonderland,
Alice asks the cat: “Which road should I take?”
In reply, the cat says: “Where are you going?”
To that, Alice says: “I don’t know.”
“Then it doesn’t matter which road you take,” the cat says in response.
I guess only human beings are gifted with power to change themselves – no matter what the past was. You are not your past! There are infinite possibilities present in front of you – only if you take a road which will lead to that exploration.
So, are you going to give your life a chance?
Which road will you take, my friend?